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HaiTa
08/23/2007, 11:00 AM
Mysteries of the Sexes Explained

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Are You Too Clingy?

Posted by David Zinczenko (http://health.yahoo.com/experts/menlovesex/bio;_ylt=AtV.Uubg3_Q0RoL89shxS_qrJNIF)
on Thu, Aug 16, 2007, 12:03 am PDT

A guy in a good relationship is, for the most part, a pretty happy guy - and most of us know how lucky we are.
In fact, 75 percent of men would grade their current relationship as an A or a B, according to a poll of more than 2,000 men for my book, "Men, Love & Sex." But there are three main sins that can turn a man from happy to "hey-where's-the-door" in no time.
Lying is the first one, and unless you're lying to yourself, as well, you know how not to do it. Nagging is the second, and you'll know you're doing it when the words you say are immediately followed by the thought, "I sound just like my mother!"
But the third deadly sin is harder to spot in one's self, because it often looks and feels just like love. I'm talking about clinginess. Men are hard to decipher on this point, because they value in women both vulnerability (they want to be your hero) and independence (they want to be left alone once in a while). He wants you close; he doesn't want you on him like a freshly dried sock. Here are some signs that your relationship Velcro is about to endure a loud ripping noise.

Needy Sign 1: Your Over-Under on Daily Phone Calls is Two*

Fine, you need to check in once during the day to see if you're set for dinner, and then once again later in the day just to fill him in on what happened to your boss/friend/grandmom, or just to say hello.
You make more calls than that? The unspoken message is that maybe you don't trust him, or don't have enough to do yourself, or are relying too much on him for everyday satisfaction. All are turn-offs-and, in all likelihood, grounds for tuning out.
* Three, if you have kids.

Needy Sign 2: You Insist on a Joint E-mail Account

Oh, how nice it is when "Bob and Karen@yahoo" can e-mail "Joe and Linda@yahoo" to set up the night at the Italian place on the 20th. Not really.
While there's no problem with joint bank accounts, joint car loans, and joint mortgages, there's a not so subtle message that's sent to guys when their Internet activity is being monitored like it's under the eyes of a 24-hour surveillance camera: That you don't trust him a lick.
There's certainly some dangerous ground online (and I can't deny that plenty of men abuse their electronic privacy), but tightening the cyber-noose too much in the beginning of a relationship can send the signal to a man that he's not going to have an iota of privacy anytime or anywhere.

Needy Sign 3: You Update Him on the Latest Celebrity Gossip

Granted, a lot of men don't like to talk. And granted, a lot of men could be more talkative, better listeners, and more of an emotional sounding board for their partners. But some men are like cars - they have only so much emotional and conversational fuel before they run out of gas.
Of course, there's nothing wrong with banter about such inane stuff as Britney, Lindsay, or who's dating whom, but do that too often with a guy, and he may wonder if there's something wrong with your other social networks - which would make him think that he's going to be obligated to carry more of the social weight than he's ready to handle.

Needy Sign 4: You Don't Have Your Own Poker Night

Get this: 64 percent of men say they're happy to have time to themselves when their girlfriends have plans. A lot of men want their ladies to go out and do stuff on their own, whether it's through hobbies or socializing or working.
One, that away-from-each-other time ensures that women have their own independent outlets. And two, it gives men a chance to have their own testosterone release. If this doesn't happen - at least occasionally - resentment and frustration can build, because the unspoken message is that you may not have enough of your own independence to respect his.

Know a few other needy signs? Share them here. And guys: Lest you think you're off the hook, here are 10 ways that women are judging you (http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=AmdoxonVbzLZNHddv_mXzuWrJNIF/SIG=1192ot4ml/**http%3a//www.menshealth.com/womenjudge).
Read ‘em and heed ‘em.

HaiTa
08/23/2007, 11:08 AM
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10 Ways Women Judge You (= XT, BL, TC, PDK, IM... :D)

...And how to win them over anyway

Photographs by: Reggie Casagrande, By: Ron Geraci
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Can't Tell the Players Without a Scorecard
"So much subliminal information is conveyed in those first seconds of contact," says Carol Kauffman, Ph.D., a relationship therapist and psychology instructor at Harvard medical school. Okay, so you're on the clock. Make every second count. Below are 10 ways - in rough chronological order - a woman judges your fitness to be her proverbial daddy.
<TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE>Did He Dress Well for the Date?
"She's watching to see if you put some energy into your dress and grooming," says Aline Zoldbrod, Ph.D., a psychologist and sex therapist in Boston. "If you don't take the trouble to dress well for her now, she could see it as disrespectful." <TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE>Is He Depressed?
Does he stare at my breasts? Does he have any sense of humor? If you're a total loser, it pays for her to ascertain that on the first date, says Zoldbrod. <TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE>Is He Like My Ex?
Yes, we always pay for the last guy's sins. "What women want is often based on their past negative or positive experiences," says Kauffman. So when she talks about past boyfriends, heed well. <TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE>Is He Bitter About Past Relationships?
She needs full use of your closets. There's no room for baggage. <TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE>Can He Talk About Himself and Listen to Me?
She'll carry 80 percent of the conversation load. Just make sure your 20 percent is about something. <TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE>Is He Generous?
Women somehow see a correlation between leaving a 10 percent tip and having a propensity to drown kittens. <TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE>Does He Make Me Feel Understood and Appreciated?
If you can't succinctly state her values, her politics, and her ambitions, you're probably failing here. Ask more questions. Listen to the answers this time. <TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE>Is He Open to a Relationship but Not Needy?
Ace the other nine criteria here and your odds of appearing needy will edge toward nil. <TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE>Does He Keep Promises?
If you're not reliable, you're not viable, especially not for the ultimate goal of all this. . . . <TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE>Does He Have the Potential to be a Good Father?
"For long-term potential, she considers whether you have the values she wants in a man," says Jean Koehler, Ph.D., president of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists. If she can't see tykes on your knee, she's wasting her time. How you interact with your own family can be a strong indicator here. <TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE><!-- Test if in print mode --><SCRIPT language=JavaScript> var contextPath = '/cda'; var url = 'emailafriendpage.do?site=MensHealth&channel=sex.relationships&category=couples&'; var emailContentTitle = '10+Ways+Women+Judge+You'; var jsDeck = '...And+how+to+win+them+over+anyway'; var emailContentType = 'article'; var pageLocation = ''; </SCRIPT><SCRIPT language=JavaScript src="js/content_task.js"></SCRIPT><!-- BOTTOM BUTTON BAR STARTS -->

Phuc That Bich
08/24/2007, 09:22 AM
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10 Ways Women Judge You (= XT, BL, TC, PDK, IM... :D)

...And how to win them over anyway

Photographs by: Reggie Casagrande, By: Ron Geraci
<!--Article Body-->

Can't Tell the Players Without a Scorecard
"So much subliminal information is conveyed in those first seconds of contact," says Carol Kauffman, Ph.D., a relationship therapist and psychology instructor at Harvard medical school. Okay, so you're on the clock. Make every second count. Below are 10 ways - in rough chronological order - a woman judges your fitness to be her proverbial daddy.
<TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE>Did He Dress Well for the Date?
"She's watching to see if you put some energy into your dress and grooming," says Aline Zoldbrod, Ph.D., a psychologist and sex therapist in Boston. "If you don't take the trouble to dress well for her now, she could see it as disrespectful." <TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE>Is He Depressed?
Does he stare at my breasts? Does he have any sense of humor? If you're a total loser, it pays for her to ascertain that on the first date, says Zoldbrod. <TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE>Is He Like My Ex?
Yes, we always pay for the last guy's sins. "What women want is often based on their past negative or positive experiences," says Kauffman. So when she talks about past boyfriends, heed well. <TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE>Is He Bitter About Past Relationships?
She needs full use of your closets. There's no room for baggage. <TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE>Can He Talk About Himself and Listen to Me?
She'll carry 80 percent of the conversation load. Just make sure your 20 percent is about something. <TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE>Is He Generous?
Women somehow see a correlation between leaving a 10 percent tip and having a propensity to drown kittens. <TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE>Does He Make Me Feel Understood and Appreciated?
If you can't succinctly state her values, her politics, and her ambitions, you're probably failing here. Ask more questions. Listen to the answers this time. <TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE>Is He Open to a Relationship but Not Needy?
Ace the other nine criteria here and your odds of appearing needy will edge toward nil. <TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE>Does He Keep Promises?
If you're not reliable, you're not viable, especially not for the ultimate goal of all this. . . . <TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE>Does He Have the Potential to be a Good Father?
"For long-term potential, she considers whether you have the values she wants in a man," says Jean Koehler, Ph.D., president of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists. If she can't see tykes on your knee, she's wasting her time. How you interact with your own family can be a strong indicator here. <TABLE><TBODY></TBODY></TABLE><!-- Test if in print mode --><SCRIPT language=JavaScript> var contextPath = '/cda'; var url = 'emailafriendpage.do?site=MensHealth&channel=sex.relationships&category=couples&'; var emailContentTitle = '10+Ways+Women+Judge+You'; var jsDeck = '...And+how+to+win+them+over+anyway'; var emailContentType = 'article'; var pageLocation = ''; </SCRIPT><SCRIPT language=JavaScript src="js/content_task.js"></SCRIPT><!-- BOTTOM BUTTON BAR STARTS -->


...quan trọng nhất vẫn là Are you man enough???

Tùy Anh
09/06/2007, 08:17 AM
...quan trọng nhất vẫn là Are you man enough???

Right ! and are you real man ???

TA

PDK
09/06/2007, 08:31 AM
Right ! and are you real man ???

TA


Chéc hổng đeo bông tai thì đã là ... man enough ? :sweatingb :sweatingb.

Còn hông bét chước mấy chú đen ... đeo ... cho đáng :D :D. Lựa cái hột ... to đùng ... đeo cho nặng lỗ tai ... mau thành Phật ... mau lên Niết Bàn :D :D. Hi hi.


:D :D

bilu
09/06/2007, 08:49 AM
Anh Phuc That Bich xé vài trang cuối của anh "truyền nghề" cho bà con... thế nào là "man enough"???

Cám ơn anh lắm lắm... đặng đi kiếm...(thêm) !!!

:sweatingb:sweatingb:sweatingb

Phuc That Bich
09/06/2007, 01:07 PM
Right ! and are you real man ???

TA

Dạ thưa cô, tới giờ này em cũng hổng biết em có phải là "real man" hay không nữa, vì thỉnh thoảng em cũng hay "bị" có cảm tình với anh KSĐT BíLu`:wink: , em nghĩ "one way to find out" : thử hàng là chắc ăn nhất!!! Nếu cô TA có cháu gái nào "bị" hơi dể thương một chút thì em xin "vô lân tia" cái thân tàng để thử hàng vậy!!! :D :D :D

Phuc That Bich
09/06/2007, 02:12 PM
Anh Phuc That Bich xé vài trang cuối của anh "truyền nghề" cho bà con... thế nào là "man enough"???

Cám ơn anh lắm lắm... đặng đi kiếm...(thêm) !!!

:sweatingb:sweatingb:sweatingb

Anh BL nói dzởn hay nói chơi đây !!!! Ba cái dzụ này trang đầu em còn hổng có lấy đâu ra trang cuối, thưa anh! Em nghĩ anh KSĐT mờ muốn kiếm thêm...thì anh nên tham khảo Bác 200KG, sư phụ đó!!!

anmota
09/07/2007, 07:25 AM
...mỗi sáng, tôi nghe từ bên kia đường những lời tình ái ngọt ngào tha thiết...
Và khuya lắm nhưng lời thiết tha đó vẫn như còn đó bèn hỏi bà chị dâu:
-- Vườn nhà ông Cữu B. đó chú!
-- Con cháu nhà này sao mà yêu đương thâu đêm suốt sáng...không mỏi mệt?
-- Chú muốn biết qua Mỹ mà hỏi con cháu nhà họ Tạ...
-- Con cháu nhà này coi bộ...
...
AMT

PDK
09/07/2007, 08:17 AM
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10 Ways Women Judge You (= XT, BL, TC, PDK, IM... :D)

...And how to win them over anyway


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Bằng chứng nè bác Hai,

Chủ Nhựt tuần rồi, em đi chùa cúng Thất Tuần, sáng sớm sợ ... vô Chùa ... ngồi nghe Kinh mòa cái bụng nó réo thì cũng ... hơi mệt nên em đi vô tiệm cà phê làm ly cà phê với cái bánh cho nó ... đỡ đói lòng.

Bước vô quán cà phê, đang sắp hàng, đứng nghĩ ngợi lung tung, quên cả mình đang sắp hàng, chợt nghe giọng ... oanh vàng ... thủ thỉ.

- May I help you ?

Em chợt bừng tỉnh,

- Oh, May I have a large regular coffee and a chicken sandwich, please.

- Anything else.

- That's all.

Tưởng xong ... nhiệm vụ ... phát ngôn, em định đứng sang bên, chợt cô bán hàng ... háy mét (wink :D), xong rùi lại ... hỏi tiếp ...

- Are you Philippino ?

- No.

- Are you Chinese ?

- No. I'm Vietnamese.

Cô hàng lại ... háy mét tươi cười. Em chợt nghĩ ... tội anh quá em ơi, xui cho ... em lòa anh đã có vợ rùi :D :D. ha ha.

Về nhà em kể lại cho vị tổng tư lịnh nghe thì thay vì được nụ cười và cái háy mét thì em cũng được ... nụ cười và cái ... liếc mét. Em hổng biết ... Win hay ... Loose nữa :D :D

...

Vô chùa, ngồi đọc kinh, chợt có cái khúc này ... lọa quá anh BL :D :D. Đọc nghe rất là ... tức cười (thiệt đó nghen, em hổng có chế ra đâu nghe :D :D). Cái khúc đó nó như vầy ...

Đồ lô, đồ lô, xích ra, hất ra, ta dị đa :D :D

Gặp ... đồ lô ... thì ... xích ra, xong lại ... hất ra ... mà người ta ... là ... dị đó ... nha :D :D. Ha ha ha.



:D :D :D